Beautiful You

Inside each and every one of us is a beautiful sensual
being filled with the same vibrancy and grace
as the world's most gorgeous women, and all it
takes is a little nudge to set her free - one
way to help her on her way is with a little silk
and lace.

Wearing sexy
lingerie is one of the perks of being born
female. It helps us connect with our femininity,
and it also helps us get in touch with that beautiful
woman inside of us. Let's face it, most of us
don't have supermodel looks, perfect bodies, or
the budget for a personal chef, trainer, plastic
surgeon, or do our shopping on Rodeo Drive in
Beverly Hills, but none of that matters! Feeling
beautiful is a state of mind, it's a state of
being, and when we tap into our femininity and
wrap ourselves in beautiful things we feel as
good, as sexy, and as stunning as any runway supermodel.

So what's the secret?

Our natural femininity is drawn out when we slide
those silky stockings up along our legs and then fasten
them to a lacy garter belt. We can't help but
feel connected to everything feminine about us.
Lingerie is such a wonderful and easy way to connect
with that femininity, and the benefits of doing
so are countless.

Let's focus on us for a moment. Our bodies are curvy,
soft, we have swells of flesh which beg to be
touched, and we're built this way for one reason,
to attract members of the opposite sex. It isn't
any mystery why we have curves and why men stop
dead in their tracks when they see a woman walking
by them. They stop to look because they're visually
attracted to our bodies, and by accentuating our
bodies and our natural attributes, we attract
more attention. But what about us? What benefits
do we get from wearing sexy things like lingerie?
The benefit is that we feel beautiful. Our mind
is our body's biggest erogenous zone, and that
state of mind we get into when we slip into a
silky babydoll or a lacy
bustier or even a
laced up corset with garters is priceless.
Putting ourselves in that state of mind makes
us feel desirable, sexy, and sometimes even a
little naughty! Women spend thousands of dollars
every year on makeup, perfumes, hair products,
clothes, all to look and feel good about ourselves
and to look and feel beautiful. Why should that
stop in the bedroom? Yes, your body is beautiful,
but wrapping yourself in soft pretty things only
enhances that natural beauty.

Lingerie is also a fun way to indulge some of your naughty
fantasies with things like
costumes or even a wicked corset to help make
you feel like the gorgeous sex kitten that you
are!

Lingerie isn't just for
the girls with the perfect bodies anymore either.
Most companies now offer
lingerie in plus sizes so women of all shapes
can indulge in their own beauty and feel just
as desirable.

So what about the guys?
Men are visually stimulated, so when he sees you
dressed in your beautiful lingerie, you're going
to get his attention and stir his desires. Men
seek out that femininity, that vulnerability in
women, and when we accentuate our femininity with
lingerie, we radiate with female energy which
brings out his masculine energy. Make no mistake
about it girls, you're in control in the bedroom,
and if you want your man to worship you all night
until the break of dawn, then you need to take
charge of your femininity and give him something
to worship!

Let him slowly undress
you. Invite him to sit back and watch you slide
your stocking off. By the time he gets his hands
on you he's going to be wild with only one thing
on his mind, YOU!

There are so many good
things about feeling beautiful. The emotional
and psychological benefits of feeling desirable
are so essential to our well being. If you're
not ready for a full blown erotic lingerie makeover,
try starting slow with maybe a nice silky teddy
or even a satin robe, and then work your way up
to something sexier. It's entirely up to you how
much lingerie you want to wear, but remember,
you're doing it for you. That's what's most important,
that you do it for yourself first. Make yourself
feel beautiful, sexy and alive and the world will
respond. And if not the world… then the one you
love and the one who loves you.

And that ladies, is all
that really matters.

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